... which can easily turn into dependency or addiction...and most of us have something like that...one or the other....
...love.....
...and many other things could be...However dependency is not really what anybody like because it feels like suffering.
It's is good to observ ourselves from this point of
view and to discover our "bad habits" or how do they work on us, because if we can't catch them on time they can become our addition and our dependency.
How I observed it, it starts gently… we just like this or that or she or him and then we start long for it… we always think about it, our thoughts are constantly revolving around it and craving for it...and than it's starts...the dependency, as if we can't live without it.
So instead of being liberated or feeling free or creativ and inspiried (which feeling forexample the "love" can give us...in my opinion) we suddenly are enchained to the "object (subject)" to our love...and than we are in a trouble and we feel like we are in a “dark hole” which leads to nowhere.
Our view is narrowing down to this “only one” thing and if we could observe ourselves we would see that we are in a trap, because we are unable to let it go this whatever and than we are a big trouble...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F8wTeX4GqYc
It will starts to create a lot of contradictions, when we have the feeling of we are in a disharmony with ourselves. That our thoughts tells us different things than what our hearts tells and at the end we might act like as if we are in a mess…or confused…or we are just totally paralyzed and we don’t do anything.) we can became compulsary with this things too.
Many times our dependency has to do with our "desires" something we wish so much but when we have them they leave us with the feeling of "emptiness".
And here I'd like to share with you my Master, Silo's first public speech from 1969, which means a lot to me and also helping me a lot and gives a lot to meditate about...anytime when I'm reading it (because I'm trying to understand and refect on it for about 20 years...and still)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bHyPXctwvZg
When we "need" something and we are able to figure out what is that, we can start to act based on it and then we start to feel peace and as we could have reached an agreement with ourselves and that is our life is on the right truck. It feels like as if we are "growing inside" and nothing can stop you. It’s the feeling of coherence and liberation.
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